How it actually works
Name stages as work, not temperature. Discovery booked, discovery held, proposal out, verbal yes, paid — those can be audited. 'Warm' cannot. If a new hire needs a story to explain a card, the stage is a mood.
Capture lost on purpose. Without lost reasons you will keep buying the same traffic and calling it a funnel problem. Review the board weekly against the rules, not against hope.
Show-up and close are the numbers. Traffic without those two is a content hobby.
A pipeline is not a set of labels — it is a set of jobs. Discovery booked means an event exists; discovery held means the call happened; proposal out means a dated artifact left the building; verbal yes is not paid; paid is Won. If a new hire needs a story to explain why a card sits in a stage, the stage is a mood and reporting will be theatre. Write the exit rule under the stage name as if you will audit it on Monday. 'Moved when they feel ready' is not an exit rule; 'moved when the Calendly event with type Discovery is marked held, or when no-show is tagged' is.
Lost is a first-class stage, not a delete: without lost reasons you will buy the same traffic twice and call it a funnel problem. The opportunity should not be allowed to enter Lost with an empty lost_reason. Owners must be unambiguous — one user (or one role) moves the card, because two owners is how cards rot. Time-in-stage is the real backlog — a proposal sitting fourteen days is work, not a vibe. Wire the stage names to the objects that prove them: calendar events, custom fields, payments. If Won can be clicked without a payment or signed agreement field, Won is a feeling.
The split into two databases is almost always this: the calendar or inbox is the real pipeline, and GHL is a screenshot — or two pipelines exist for the same offer because someone duplicated 'just in case'. Pick one pipeline per offer motion. If you sell a workshop and a retained sprint, those can be two pipelines because they are different jobs; if you sell one coaching offer with two personalities on the team, that is still one pipeline. Review Monday: counts, time-in-stage, lost reasons. If the numbers need a story, the stages are still moods — fix the names before you add a dashboard.